In this episode, Marga Berlinski shares her 15-year journey from a primary school teacher to an intimacy and tantra coach. She discusses the importance of playfulness, connection, and responsible sexuality in relationships, as well as her insights on Tantra Speed Dating – an event that she organises in Amsterdam, and the impact of digital media on intimacy.

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Links

Marga on IG: @turnon_the_netherlands
Website: Turn On The Netherlands
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Episode Navigation

00:00 introduction
00:02 connection and vulnerability
01:52 from teaching to intimacy work
03:59 key beliefs about beauty and self-expression
06:10 the power of playfulness in relationships
07:58 handling stories and inner critics
12:01 impact of digital media
14:08 tantra speed dating: approach and practice
16:02 masculine and feminine energy
18:00 challenges of modern dating
20:05 building trust and navigating conflict
37:25 eye gazing as a tool for authentic connection
38:55 the role of vulnerability in deepening relationships
41:00 sharing real things and building trust
43:37 tips for dating and showing up authentically
44:48 the importance of being present
48:25 what is orgasmic meditation and its benefits
01:01:01 climax, state of orgasm and flow
01:03:20 rewriting the sexual script for more fulfilling sex
01:04:44 applying curiosity and playfulness to all areas of life
01:05:39 how sex and intimacy change with age
01:06:16 the impact of physiological changes and acceptance
01:08:10 embracing aging and changing bodies in sexuality
01:10:21 overcoming shame and language barriers in sex
01:13:30 the importance of curiosity and self-exploration
01:14:14 final thoughts on compassion and self-love