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Lessons from working with real sex scenes.

Izzy has worked with intimate scenes for more than a decade. In this lesson she shares what makes an adult film ethical, how she talks with performers, and why consent is an ongoing conversation, not a one-time yes.

It’s for anyone who makes intimate scenes, or wants to, and wants to do it ethically and professionally.

In the lesson

An intro and six chapters. Watch it in one sitting or jump to the part you need.

  1. 0:00 Intro
  2. 1:24 My story
  3. 5:00 Elements of ethical porn
  4. 8:46 Communication
  5. 16:47 Boundaries
  6. 21:32 Consent
  7. 26:46 Lessons learned from porn
Izabela Bartyzel (Izzy), founder of RedCheeks

Your teacher

Izabela Bartyzel

I founded RedCheeks Academy, where I teach a grounded, ethical approach to intimacy in storytelling, whether it’s adult film, mainstream media, or the blurry space in between.

I’ve worked with intimate scenes for more than a decade and prepared hundreds of performers for their shoots. Today I work on film sets as a producer and intimacy coordinator.

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Questions

Is it really free?

Yes. Leave your first name and email and the video opens straight away.

How long is it?

30 minutes: a short intro and six chapters. On the video page you can jump straight to any chapter.

Is it safe to watch at work?

Yes. It’s Izzy talking to the camera. There is no explicit footage.

What happens with my email address?

It goes on the RedCheeks mailing list, so you’ll hear from Izzy now and then. We don’t share it with anyone else. Every email has an unsubscribe link.

What comes after the lesson?

If you want to practice what’s in it, there is Permission Practice, a self-paced course, and Intimacy on Screen, a five-week workshop: a deep dive into working with intimacy and exploring yourself.

The free lesson, in 30 minutes

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